If you are looking for a man that comes home at 6 o’clock on the dot every night to have his dinner served to him and talk about the stock market you do not want a Gemini man. You would have better luck with a Taurus, Cancer, or Capricorn if you want that kind of monotonous stability. Gemini men are free spirits, and you will have to keep up with him if you want him as your own. Being around a Gemini is very unpredictable, and this is because of his two or more personalities that live inside of him.
This guy most likely loves people. Whether they are extroverted or introverted, they love being around other breathing bodies. They have wit, warmth, and beautiful manners. You will see him talk to someone, and then move onto another acting as a totally different person to morph into what they think that person would enjoy. Versatility is something they excel at. This is why they are typically wonderful in sales.
If you start falling for this man, prepare to be patient. His head is in a million places at once. He will take you on one of the most incredible dates you have ever been on while serenading you with words you only read in books. The very next day he won’t answer your calls. Yes, it is maddening, but that is just him. The next date you go on he will tell you that he doesn’t like fuchsia on you, and you will be wondering where your sweet romantic Gemini went from your first date. Don’t worry, he’ll be back. Just come back at him with, “Well I love the color fuchsia, so that is just too damn bad. Either get over it or stop looking at me.” He will love it; he may even get down on one knee right there and ask you to be his forever. This guy needs a woman that can give him freedom while still checking his ass every once in a while.
This guys is constantly evolving. He will never always be the same. That is why the butterfly is associated with this sign. They are free fluttering wherever their hearts desire, and able to change themselves completely. They are so easy to love, because they are fun and carefree. If you want to be with him forever you have to allow yourself to morph with him instead of trying to get him to be something he is not. This guys is smart and will need someone he can talk to, someone he can bounce ideas off of, someone that challenges him.
You will notice that these people go through friends like socks. They need different people in their life to feed their appetite for variety. He just doesn’t get attached to tangible things like a Cancer would. He just doesn’t see the value in it. He’s more of a fly by the seat of your pants type of guy. Geminis like to have two of everything to keep their multiples happy; two hobbies, two dogs, two jobs, etc.
When it comes to money for the Gemini man, it will just depend on the day. He may go gambling it all away one night, and then eat ramen noodles for a month straight so he can put extra in his Roth IRA. This kind of randomness and quirkiness makes him very attractive to women. They may not even know exactly why they like him, but there is just that something. Unfortunately, this sign is known for infidelity especially when they feel trapped. They need to feed their minds constantly, so being with someone jealous and restricting will push him away and possibly make him feel like he needs to be unfaithful for his own sanity. He doesn’t like it. He just wants to find that one woman that makes that feeling go away.
When you guys get married and have children, he will be a wonderful playmate for them. He won’t judge or smother them. They may get a little confused when he says one thing is okay to do one day, but not another. As much as he loves and spoils them, I would not expect him to get them up in the morning. That is going to have to be your job my dear. A schedule on the way out the door to remind him of the soccer game later that day will help this man tremendously, and maybe a call and a text too!
He is not a jealous man in the slightest. If you want a boyfriend to punch a dude in the face because some random guy grabbed your ass, date a Scorpio. Geminis are not fighters nor are they jealous. It is just not really in their nature. He is a classy guy that will calm you with his eloquent loving words, and you will be happy that you have such a loving caring guy by your side even if he was 45 minutes late picking you up.
Relationships of all kinds are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold on to some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.
– Kaleel Jamison
This is a good quote to keep in mind if you are with a Gemini man, everything that is except the sand part. They are more like a handfull of beautiful silver mercury. Their planet is Mercury for a reason. It changes shape, it is beautiful, unpredictable, and unattainable in a way. That is a Gemini man. Be his “two of everything” and you will have his cool beautiful soul in the palm of your unrestricting hand.