There are two types of Pisces men in the world; fish and whales. They are both beautiful dreamers, but some make their dreams into reality, and some do not. Pisces fish can live with their dreams, food, and a bottle of wine. Notice how I left out the “you” part. That is because these men can create anything into a dream, so if you aren’t going to stick around they will make it. They might be sad, but they will make it. They like people, but they do not need them. If you are looking for a provider, do not get into a relationship with a Pisces who only has his dreams, unless family life is something that is not too important to you, or you come from a wealthy family that will support both of you, or if you want to work two jobs; one for him and one for you. If this does not sound appealing to you, and he is still living on his dreams and not in reality by the time he is 30, I would give you advice to say goodbye. Yes it will hurt to leave your dreamy romantic fish, but there are whales out there.
If you get lucky enough to meet a whale, you are one lucky girl. All Pisces men are romantic and dreamers, but this one will actually be able to put food on your table, and rent will be paid on time. These are the men that turned their dreams into reality, and the ones who are able to help provide for the family you want.
The Pisces man is beautifully empathetic. He never judges people without walking a mile in their moccasins. He is one of those people that you can go to with your ugliest of confessions, and it won’t even shock him. He will just sit there and listen while doing everything in his power to understand why. He likes sympathy as much as the next person, so he has no problem dishing it out to others.
When it comes to you telling him secrets that you want kept, be careful. These guys really don’t mean to tell, but they might accidentally let things slip out from time to time. It is hard for him at times to realize what he says can sometimes be damaging. These guys speak slowly and think gently. He tries to stay out of problems with friends and family, but drama tends to follow him like a moth to the flame. People just like going to him because they know they are in the “judge free zone.”
If you are dating a Pisces guy, the last thing they want to hear from you is all of your problems too. You are their romance, happiness, and escape from all of those other problematic people in their life. He needs relief with you. Because Pisces has natural depth to them, they tend to soak up whatever energy is around them. That is why it is crucial that he surrounds himself with positivity and happy people. If he does not he can become very depressed and dark. They are very emotional, and can also feel other people’s emotions around them. This blessing and curse will cause them to tire easily, and they will need to rest often. So before you go and call your Pisces man lazy, remember that he feels first. Give him his space so he can refresh his aura. He needs it.
Never hold back encouragement of any kind from this man, he really does need it. This guy rarely gets upset, but when he does it is usually not long lasting. He does think it is fun to fool people though. However, because of is deep intuition it will be very hard to trick him. This guy likes to tell you things that aren’t necessarily true all the time. You might call it little white lies. He will tell you that he is at the grocery store when he is really at the gas station. Yes it is weird and ridiculous, but they find it fun. As long as it isn’t hurting anything I wouldn’t make too big of a deal about it.
He is not a super jealous guy, so having your freedom won’t be too much to ask from him. You may have to get your jealousy in check though. This guy will have a lot of friends of both sexes that will want to talk to him at all hours of the night. He also appreciates the female body very much, so he may check a chick out every once and again. Do not worry though, if he is yours he will be loyal because he appreciates loyalty from the one he is with so much himself.
When it comes to money, I would not say that they are the best with it. They are overly generous to their friends and family with it. If someone comes to them in need, they will pull out every penny from their bank account that they have, even if rent is due the next day. This is because Pisces have been through the entire Karmic wheel and understand that money is not real. They value the human soul over everything. Not to say that these people don’t like cold hard cash, but they just don’t value it as much as the bigger things in life. He needs a good example by him to show how to invest and save his dollars.
When and if he has children, they will absolutely love him. Some say a Pisces father is even better than a Pisces husband. He will use his imagination to play with them frequently. You will to the disciplining, and he will do the listening. He will be involved in everything they do, and he will also have an uncanny way of know exactly what they need without even asking for it.
One thing I highly advise against is treading on his dreams and ideas. That will hurt him more than a stab to the heart. Help him create a plan to turn them into a reality. His enthusiasm should never be shut down. At times his dreams may be frustrating because all you ever hear about is the dream, but when a fish becomes a whale it is really something incredible to be a part of. This man is always growing and changing by learning from himself and his emotions. Be his romance, his soundboard, his comfort, his plan, and his stability and the cold murky waters of his hopes and dreams that he may live in will turn into crystal clear blue waters of reality.