The Aquarius Man
The Aquarius Man
He’s all you can ask for as a friend, and one hell of a confidant as a lover. Love is something that is hard to get to with an Aquarius Man. You’ll know he loves you when he acts like he doesn’t like you anymore, because the fact if the matter is he likes everyone. He does this when he is scared to show his true feelings. He would much rather prefer to know yours first. He likes to live life through experiments and experiences. To be tied down to one person doesn’t leave a ton of room for either of those things, so to settle down you’ll have to really bring something to the table.
This guy loves his friends and has plenty of them. He’s a total team player and most love playing and watching sports. These guys make their own rule book for life and hold themselves and others to it. He has so many interests and hobbies, it’s hard for him to even keel them all straight. What’s fascinating about these men is that their love for friendship is so strong, yet their love individually is somewhat impersonal. They believe that everyone is valuable in some way or another, and is extremely open minded to all sorts of types of people in every way imaginable.
The person who wants to lock him down will have to intrigue him. He’s not really into someone who just lays it out in the table, that’s just too easy. The harder to get, the more fun it is for this man to chase after. He wants to know what makes you tick, but hold your cards close and let him guess. Giving it away would take all the fun out, and his electric blue mind will have to look elsewhere for his next challenge. May sound exhausting to some, but to others he’s a ball of surprising good fun. His unpredictability is what makes it seem like you’re with a new man every day. There’s never a short of variety.
There’s always an excellent possibility that an Aquarian will achieve some sort of prestige during his lifetime. He’s never worried to much about the money aspect of whatever he’s doing, he just wants to do it well, make a difference, and do what he’s called to do. Because if this he cannot be with someone that places a high importance on material objects. He needs someone that is down for the ride because this man lives in the future. Even though his aspirations may not make any damn sense at the time just wait a while because they usually come to fruition. That is why many Aquarius men are entrepreneurs or inventors. They have the willpower to see their wild visions come to life.
Aquarian men can be touchingly gentle and docile, they also communicate their feelings in a very subtle and indirect way. You have to really pay attention. Speaking of his emotions, or in some cases lack there of, his ideal partner is someone who is his friend, and who doesn’t make heavy emotional demands on him. From there he usually waits to get married as long as he possibly can, but if you love him he’s worth waiting around for. He’ll come up with every reason under the sun to not get married, and when those run out he’ll come up with more. Not to worry, one day later in his life he’ll feel like he’s missing out on the life experience of what it’s like to be married with a family and out of the blue he’ll finally propose. Hang in there. If you push him he will gladly put you back to where you were in the first place, friends.
He’s not the jealous type but he’ll always protect you. He’s not the overbearing type and he will always give you your freedom. And over everything in life he’ll always be your friend, which is beautiful if you think about it. There is nothing that can happen that will change his feeling about you if he really does love you. How will you know when he loves you you ask? You’ll know when he starts telling you about all his dreams.
As a father he’ll be dazzling. He will listen to them so intently and love to help them with all their homework. He will help them think outside the box and mold them to understand how doing things for the greater good is so important. They will be his little friends and he will be theirs. This guy loves to be surrounded by friends and hates being neglected so he will appreciate how much children love to be in his company. It will be natural for him. He’ll rarely discipline them especially if they’re being honest, but will still hold them to his own wacky rule book code.
It’s funny the things he forgets and the things he remembers. He’s so often in his own world that sometimes he needs to be brought back down. It’s odd though how realistic he is able to be at times. He can’t remember what he had for breakfast but is able to remember the way someone made him feel years ago. His mind is in many ways like a labyrinth that he sometimes doesn’t even know how to navigate. He’ll get dates mixed up and yet can say the most intelligent things the next moment. He’s socially able to win over anyone in almost any social situation which is where his charm really comes through. Think Jack Dawson in Titanic when he goes up to first class and wins over the table, “Well, yes, ma’am, I do… I mean, I got everything I need right here with me. I got air in my lungs, a few blank sheets of paper. I mean, I love waking up in the morning not knowing what’s gonna happen or, who I’m gonna meet, where I’m gonna wind up. Just the other night I was sleeping under a bridge and now here I am on the grandest ship in the world having champagne with you fine people. I figure life’s a gift and I don’t intend on wasting it. You don’t know what hand you’re gonna get dealt next. You learn to take life as it comes at you… to make each day count.” That’s his goal in life, is to make each day count.